I pulled out of Birmingham around noon, the 20th of May, 2004
with mixed emotions. The thought of seeing old friends for the first time in
39-40 years had me anticipating a great time... but the news that Doug Forester
and Johnny O'Halloran could not make the trip had come a few days before and
had somewhat dampened the enthusiasm. Doug was a big part of the reason for
this little reunion. Our communications by e-mail had renewed a strong
friendship we had reluctantly let go dormant in the sixties. After a lifetime
of family raising, hard knocks, and two years of searching.... Doug stumbled
onto my 'looking for' note on Kagnew.com (Thanks Rick.) A little sleuthing by a
couple of ex-spooks,etc. from our group turned up a few more old top ten
per-cent-ers. We had decided we had better hurry and get together before health
became a factor. The letter I got from Doug a few days earlier informed me we
had waited a little too late. Doug's doc had told him he was not allowed to
travel and especially NOT hang with people like us. The letter also contained a
new 'bighead' hundred with instructions for everyone to have a drink on "The
Duke" and for everyone to have enough fun so we would want to do this thing
again.... so as he could be there... Well, MISSION ACCOMPLISHED, Doug!!! You'd
be surprised how long a dozen sixty-something's can drink off of a hundred
dollar bill!!!! So now Doug has dedicated himself to getting into good enough
shape to drink himself to death at the next reunion.
I had left a day
early for Nashville as I was the instigator (myself and Tom Mitchell shared
that title at Kagnew) of this little meeting and wanted to make sure the bar at
the hotel was well stocked. In the lobby I got the word that Don Davies could
not make it. We were all looking forward to seeing 'Nashville Don' again too.
Upon checking in I was given a note from Larry Silves with instructions to call
him in his room..... HIS ROOM? I headed for the bar and there he was with his
newfound cowboy friend telling each other lies. It was kinda like the lovers
running across the meadow in slow motion.... nah... it was really more like two
sumo wrestlers charging each other at the start of the championship match as we
exchanged that thirty-nine year old hug. The next five minutes was worth the
trip for me. Larry was one of those guys who had more time in the chow line
than I had in the army when I arrived at Kagnew... (Yeah, He told me that) and
one of the best 058s to serve there. He was a hero to the group of new guys who
came in toward the end of '63. He was also sufficiently scrufty to gain our
admiration and to show us the ropes. He was kinda like a union rep... got a
problem? Tell it to Silves.... he'd go to bat for you. If you guys were allowed
to wear shorts with kaki uniforms at the site after 1965... it was because of
Silves.
So Larry and I had a few beers, went to supper and watched some
of the show at the Nashville Palace. We made the rounds of the bars on lower
Broadway and came back to the motel bar to help close it down. We killed a
little time cruising downtown the next day waiting for others to come in....
Toured the Ryman and got to stand on the stage and have our picture taken
there. The cardboard Elvis was gone so we didn't get that picture!
Back
at the motel Bob Steurer, Jeff Townsend, Tom Mitchell, Roger Coday, Linc
Michaud, and Will Amatruda all came blowing in and were hearded to the bar.
Only a couple of the wives were there to admire the professional beer-drinking
style and back-slapping appreciation of a good story lived so long ago. To our
surprise they showed only a few signs of grossed-out-edness from time to
time.... but they still listened to try to catch something good on their
husbands! Funny... Seems nobody ever tells their wives ANYTHING they did in
Asmara. You know....classified!!
Things were getting louder as we were
getting into Doug's hundred. I looked up and at the guy coming into the room
and thought.... "Uh Oh... now who the hell is this guy?" It turned out to be
Rod Ball!! He had become and was dressed and adorned like a biker dude. Rod was
always a little independent and maybe a little nonconformist and from his
appearance he had perfected that image... His tattoos and piercings were
exquisite and his life to this point had taken many turns.... After Kagnew and
a tour in Viet Nam it was living in Height-Ashbury, running a tattoo parlor in
Alaska, school, working as a tax assessor in Ohio, dropping out completely for
a while, and now working construction in Nashville. Like I said, Rod has
perfected the lifestyle he chose and everyone loves him for it. As the reunion
ended he said that this had been the happiest two days of his life...(That he
could remember!!) Rod... We LOVE YOU man!!!!
Len Thomas came in and Bob
Sheppard was due to arrive from Portland at 10:00 PM. Steurer made arrangements
with a Russian limo driver to pick him up at the airport. Since the long,
stretch limo had a long, stretch beer trough, Larry and a couple more wanted to
go too. When he arrived, Bob approached the limo as Rumsfeld approaches
his..... like he expected it to be there. "Nice ride", he said. The driver
shook off all the suggested stops which Silves requested, saying he didn't know
of any places like that in Nashville. The guy must have had something against
tips, huh Larry!!
We all met back in the bar around 11:30 PM and started
drinking off Roger Coday's dollar... (Thanks Roger).. and kept the bar open to
about 4:00 AM. Len got his guitar out and sang and played the harp when he run
outta lies to tell.... Well, actually he had a puppet there in Roger Coday who
somewhat verified some of those wild stories which Len told.The plan Saturday
was to meet in the bar with pictures and memorabilia. (I, who had reminded
everyone to bring theirs.... had forgotten mine and had them UPS'd to the
hotel...how embarrassing!!) Picture hour was a big success. Roger Coday and
Linc Michaud had made their pictures into slide shows on CDs which they were
able to show on computers..... great pictures too!! Jeff Townsend even brought
super-8 movies of North Beach, our fishing trip on the Viking ship, and even a
donkey softball game held on post in 1965, I think. Some of us had anonymous
people in our pictures identified, after carrying around their un-named faces
for so many years. Probably more unknowns could have been identified and more
memories could have been recalled were it not for the rat-finks who didn't
attend.. (Ya know I'm kiddin') Most of the guys who were not there were at
least talked about a lot and since they were NOT there, we got to tell it OUR
way!
While eating supper in a sports bar near the motel, a group of
young people evidently overheard that this was a group of old, ex-military (or
saw Len's 'lifer' cap). And, much the same as the last time we were in
Nashville, the people were extremely nice and thankful toward us and really
made us feel welcome and at home. That was refreshing... at least the military
is getting some respect nowadays. (Southern term!)
I do not remember a
negative thought during our stay in Nashville. This was an unselfish and
unassuming crowd..... what great friends.
A couple of guys who I had
very little dealings with at Kagnew... I now consider good friends. A reunion
can be a most fulfilling experience in the life of us aging warriors (loose
interpretation).. If you get a chance...go to one... or put one togather.... do
it! I think small and informal is the way to go and there is more common
interest that way(advice per Zazz)..... As we drifted apart again Sunday
morning I heard some say, "I had my doubts coming in but I'm so glad we
came."
Some random thoughts as I think back:
- Enjoying talking late nights with my new friend, Will
Amatruda. I would like to sponsor him on Jeopardy. The most read man I've ever
met..... and by the way, don't schedule anything while 'Book Talk" is on
tv.
- How unreasonable Bob Steurer was about correcting a driver
who sometimes takes the wrong way on a one way street, and also accusing the
driver of not knowing where he is going.
- The hilarious sequence of snapshots of Bob Sheppard going
from opening the bottle of wine to resting in the fetal position with the empty
bottle on the pavement after it is finished back in '64.
- Linc Michaud being the same silly, great guy he was back
then..... he still tells a great joke!
- Jeff and Mitch.... friends for life.
- Len's newly acquired talent on the harmonica and his singing
one of my favorite songs. Wish we'd had more time.
- Larry's story of cross country travel/deerslaying adventure.
I think he's lucky he didn't have to take a drug test!!
- Roger Coday almost being too shy to dance on the sidewalks of
Lower Broadway!! (That's a joke, Son)
- And My best friend,Rod Ball's summing up his life.... "I yam
what I Yam and that's all that I yam"...... He's a Good'en!!!!
This was the greatest of times.... After all that water
under the bridge, all the bald heads, and all the pot-bellies... this was still
the same bunch of kids who shared a part of their lives with each other and now
had the courage to meet again and share the consequences of those sometimes
demented times when we demonstrated our manhood on "bathtub gin night" and then
had our friends clean up the vomit the next morning as we pleaded to be put out
of our misery with one quick shot to the head. That kind of friendship lasts a
long time.
Kagnew Station was so small that most of us lived about the
same experience. All of our stories are somewhat alike while being unique too.
Do you remember the first time you went downtown to..... ?? Well sure, we all
do. We all arrived under about the same circumstances... young, away from the
rules of parents and, actually, civilization for the first time.... and just
itching to grow up. There was a lack of any organized controls and some of us
pushed the limits a little and some pushed really hard.....For most of the time
it seemed more like a job than the army there. We were always buddies and took
care of each other as best we could.... and also laughed at each other a
lot.
Along with the wild times we talked of in Nashville, we remembered
Hugh Downey who built a school for the children of Keren and how he is still
caring for orphans in Kenya today.(Look up "Hugh Downey" on Google.) We
remembered our friend John Nelson, who so tragically died two weeks before
DEROS... We all grew up a little bit then. As we thought of others of our day
who have since died, Al Appleton and Bert Schemederman, I thought how sad it is
that as our generation passes on, only our children will remember us.... and
they won't know that much, as a rule. Most people are not important enough to
have a biography written about them.... but EVERYONE can have an autobiography.
Why not take a little time and write it down in case someone cares
someday?
As I close I'm thinking of "Boss" Springstein and his song
"Glory Days" and wonder which he choses to think of today... going to the drug
store and buying his medicine and all the other mundane things he has to do
today.... OR.. being twenty-three years old.... on stage...belting out them
"Glory Day" songs. I think we all know........... God, help us remember them
too!!
Ya'll start thinking about where we'll meet next
time!!
John Sims, 63-65 ASA Ops. Co., C Trick 058 |